Do fish know what water is?
- Adrian Kingsford

- Oct 10
- 2 min read
๐ ๐๐จ ๐ ๐ข๐ฌ๐ก ๐๐ง๐จ๐ฐ ๐๐ก๐๐ญ ๐๐๐ญ๐๐ซ ๐๐ฌ? Probably not.
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They live in it, depend on it, and are shaped by it - but they donโt see it.
Itโs invisible, because itโs ๐๐๐ค๐๐ฆ๐ ๐๐๐๐ ๐ก๐ฉ๐๐๐.
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Only when the water changes, when it becomes murky, turbulent, or they find themselves briefly out of it, do they realise what theyโve been surrounded by all along.
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As leaders, weโre often swimming in our own water. That water might be our culture, our beliefs, or our habits, the unspoken patterns that shape how we think, behave, and lead.
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Because itโs constant, we stop noticing it.
We accept it as โjust the way things are.โ
But sometimes, that same water has become cloudy, full of old assumptions and unnoticed ripple effects.
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And thatโs when coaching becomes ๐ญ๐ซ๐๐ง๐ฌ๐๐จ๐ซ๐ฆ๐๐ญ๐ข๐จ๐ง๐๐ฅ.

Great ๐๐จ๐๐๐ก๐ข๐ง๐ helps you see the water you're in, creating space for awareness and helping leaders:
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โ Step back and see the culture and mindset theyโre immersed in.
โ Notice the ripple effects of their behaviours.
โ Challenge assumptions that may be holding them back.
โ Redefine what clear water could look like.
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โWhatโs invisible to you controls you. What you can see, you can change.โ
- T. Harv Eker
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I use the ๐ถ๐ข๐๐ฃ๐ from New Level Results with many of the leaders and businesses I coach, because it makes the ๐๐๐ฃ๐๐ ๐๐๐๐ ๐ฏ๐ข๐ฌ๐ข๐๐ฅ๐.
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Itโs a simple, powerful, one-page framework that combines:
๐ช Awareness
โ๏ธ Action
๐ Accountability
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Through the Curve, leaders:
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โ Clarify their current reality (What water are you swimming in?).
โ Define their vision (What would clear water look like?).
โ Identify Key Behaviours (KBIs) to change the flow.
โ Track progress (watching the water become clearer with each reflection and conversation).

๐ ๐ข๐ฌ๐ก donโt know what water is until theyโre out of it.
๐๐๐๐๐๐ซ๐ฌ donโt see their culture or behaviour until they pause to reflect on it.
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Coaching helps you see your water.
The Curve helps you change it.
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What โwaterโ might you be swimming in right now?
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Thanks for reading.
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